{"id":46586,"date":"2025-07-22T09:47:36","date_gmt":"2025-07-22T02:47:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/?p=46586"},"modified":"2025-07-22T09:47:36","modified_gmt":"2025-07-22T02:47:36","slug":"phu-huynh-nen-lam-gi-khi-con-khong-do-dai-hoc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/?p=46586","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc?"},"content":{"rendered":"

K\u1ef3 thi \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u m\u1ed1c quan tr\u1ecdng, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi h\u1ecdc sinh m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng, h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng, c\u00f2n c\u00e1c em th\u00ec d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i hoang mang, t\u1ef1 ti. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u01a1i, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng: \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00fac n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i \u0111i m\u1edbi \u2013 thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. B\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con<\/b><\/h2>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u1eafng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con. Vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c em th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o ra \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. Thay v\u00ec tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c hay so s\u00e1nh, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng \u2013 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Cha
Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n b\u0129nh t\u0129nh, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, l\u1eafng nghe con<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

H\u00e3y t\u1ea1o kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u1ec3 con chia s\u1ebb: \u201cCon th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o sau k\u1ef3 thi v\u1eeba r\u1ed3i?\u201d, \u201cCon c\u00f3 \u0111ang lo l\u1eafng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, \u201cC\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n th\u1eed l\u00e0m n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng thi l\u1ea1i?\u201d\u2026 S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con d\u1ea7n l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Gi\u00fap con t\u00ecm ra \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/b><\/h2>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng l\u00e0 k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf. H\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t: Con th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m g\u00ec l\u00fac r\u1ea3nh? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i con hay m\u00e0y m\u00f2 m\u00e1y t\u00ednh, th\u00edch th\u00e1o l\u1eafp \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed ho\u1eb7c gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eeda m\u00e1y khi b\u1ecb l\u1ed7i?<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con \u0111ang r\u1ea5t ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u00e0nh k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt nh\u01b0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa laptop, \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, m\u00e1y t\u00ednh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ngh\u1ec1 \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh, c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng cao v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. G\u1ee3i \u00fd con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1<\/b><\/h2>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u201ch\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ng\u00e0y nay h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. C\u00e1c ng\u00e0nh k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt nh\u01b0 s\u1eeda laptop, \u0111i\u1ec7n l\u1ea1nh, \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ebfp\u2026 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang thi\u1ebfu nh\u00e2n l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ee9c thu nh\u1eadp h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"H\u1ecdc
H\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i \u2013 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ea5t v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u0103m l\u00e0 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i l\u00e0m, t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp s\u1edbm v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng s\u1edbm h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con th\u1eed h\u1ecdc kh\u00f3a ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n<\/b><\/h2>\n

N\u1ebfu con ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ee3i \u00fd con \u201cth\u1eed s\u1ee9c\u201d v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n t\u1eeb v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u0103m. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3a n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ea1y th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh, gi\u00fap con nhanh ch\u00f3ng l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u trung t\u00e2m \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o uy t\u00edn, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 con \u201cth\u1eed\u201d xem m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ngh\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 con v\u1eeba h\u1ecdc, v\u1eeba hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ngh\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng. Quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, thay v\u00ec b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i ph\u00eda sau.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a cho con<\/b><\/h2>\n

Quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n \u1edf b\u00ean con. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n hay \u00e1p l\u1ef1c khi ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i m\u1edbi. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean con r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0: \u201cB\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 tin con s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n con t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh th\u00edch\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp th\u00eam s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh cho con r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u1eddi k\u1ebft<\/b><\/h2>\n

Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n. H\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1eafn h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, th\u00edch t\u00ecm t\u00f2i, th\u00e1o l\u1eafp, s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed \u2013 H\u00e3y cho con m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m <\/span>ngh\u1ec1 s\u1eeda laptop<\/span><\/a>. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 t\u1ea1i H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n iT c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con nhanh ch\u00f3ng c\u00f3 tay ngh\u1ec1, c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai m\u1edbi v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu ph\u1ee5 huynh quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho con, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n iT qua s\u1ed1 0981 223 001<\/strong> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n chi ti\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn l\u1ed9 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t cho con.<\/span><\/p>\n

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hi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng, h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng, c\u00f2n c\u00e1c em th\u00ec d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i hoang mang, t\u1ef1 ti. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u01a1i, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng: \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":95,"featured_media":46590,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,39],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46586"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/95"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=46586"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46586\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/46590"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=46586"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=46586"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hocvienit.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=46586"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}